How Unsuccessful People Think.
Have you ever said this “I’ve Done A Great Job”. How often do you appreciate your work?
If you’re like me then you must have these kinida thoughts. For me this all has started in my school days. I didn’t care about my grades and what people think about me. I was like that guy always sitting in the corner of the benches. I just wanted to finish my things and move on.
I always said, “No one cares about my grades”. And in Real world no one looks at your grades. In fact, it’s true. Other than my parents no one ever looked at my grades. Now this doesn’t mean NO ONE Looks at Grades or grades doesn’t matter. There are some Employers who think your grades matter.
While working for others we forgot the most important person of our life. And this is the same person for whom you’ve studied and graduated. That Person is “You”. We forgot ourselves.
You don’t go to school for other people. You don’t work for other people.
Every person in this world has a purpose. A purpose to live, A purpose to WORK.
Now let’s understand who is successful & who is unsuccessful. Before that let’s ask ourselves a Question. Okay, Ask this question to yourself and write down the answer on a SHEET OF PAPER,
Question — What Does Success Means To Me?
Everyone will have a different answer to this question. For some people success is Making a 100 Billion Dollars, For some success is just to afford one night’s Food, For some success is finding the value of X. Your Definition of success changes according to Your MINDSET, Or according to the information that has been fed into your brain since you were born.
From a business man’s mindset the common goal of all business owners is to make a lot of profit. But this is where they are wrong & This is how an unsuccessful person thinks. Profit plays an important role in growing your business. In Simple words your main or primary goal should be solving problems of a large group of people with the same or related problem.
From a Poor man’s Mindset the common goal of all poor people is to get a place to live, Food to eat & a Job to earn. Not all poor people think like this, Only some people get the answer of This Question — What Does Success Means To Me?
A lot of people on the internet are writing articles about being successful and unsuccessful and after reading a lot of articles I’ve noticed, According to them if you’re doing a job it means you’re unsuccessful and if you own a business then you are successful. There’s no exact meaning of success. You can’t say if this person is doing a job then he is unsuccessful, or if a person owning a Business this means he is successful. A man doing a job can be successful and a man owning a business is also successful. It’s about what you want. It’s not at all about what other people think or say.
#FunFact — By changing the information you feed into your brain can even change your INTERESTS, For example if you want to learn Web Development but for some reason you can’t. Try Reading about web development, watch tv shows about web development, listen to podcasts about web development all day, after some time you’ll automatically get interested in web development. One of the reasons behind it is that we get interested in things that are already stored in our mind.
